Who loves us more?

Saturday, May 15, 2010 Edit This 6 Comments »

Last night , I was alone in the room , with No1 to accompany me, No cousin, No internet and Not even Mobile( No balance n no free sms ). I was lying on bed n wanna sleep but suddenly random thoughts came to my mind( Idle Mind is Devil’s Workshop ). At every point of time in life, we have different situations n different reactions by different people.

No doubt every1 around us loves us , but, how to Judge: Who Loves us more?


1) When We are Born, Our Mom was there to make us eat , drink n sleep. Family members were there to play with us n care 4 us. But Neighbours, relatives n friends used to cum with gifts n showering of blessings. So, who loves us more ? Inside Family members or Outside people?

2) When we entered into school, our family pushed us away from them so that we can go to school and learn about the world. But it was teachers who taught us different things n our little friends made us learn how to eat n play with others. So, who loves us more ?

3) Whenever we have exams, Mom is there with her blessings n support. But it is friends who are there for combined studies , for solving our queries and for bearing our temper. So, who loves us more ?

4) Whenevr we are ill, our family is there to consult doctors, to provide medicines and (patient/hygienic) food but relatives and friends often calls or visit home to know about our health. So, who loves us more ?

5) When we are upset and we want someone to console us, our family is 24 hours with us but friends are available mostly via mails or calls. So, who loves us more ?

6) Whenever you need money, without any hestitation we demand from our parents, without any thought of returning them.But when it comes to cousins or friends, we hestitate because we have to return them one day or the other. So, who loves us more ?

7) When we have some decision to be made, many times it happen that family members are not able to understand our point of view or our requirement and this results in less support from their side. But that point or requirement is understood by our peers or cousins and they support us. So, who loves us more ?

8) We have huge expectations from family members and if all are not met, we have complaints, we fight or cry or feel alone. But with relatives n friends, we have less expectations so often they are met, so we are happy with them. So, who loves us more ?

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This list is endless as situations are endless and every situation left a question in front of me. I thought, thought n thought a lot and finally without any conclusion, I went to sleep.

6 comments:

Surinder Bhutani said...

i liked it

Tarun Madaan said...

Gr8 thought...
I liked it alot...
Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Keep writing like this..

dhruv said...

thoughts are good, however I doubt if we should try to measure, quantify the amount of love we get from various sources in life.....

there are problems in valuation, u see!!!!!

Swati Jain said...

@ Surinder n Tarun : thnx..

@ Dhruv : I totaly agree on ur point but i believe that if some thoughts come to ur mind dn do think upon , hw vague it z :)

dhruv said...

agreed swati...

Chandni (Chanz) said...

now thats a difficult question